Start the New Year Right: Hypno-Coaching To Change Your Life

 

Many people are introduced to hypnosis through some fun show at a college event, at a bar, or at a festival of some sort.  You see some friends or strangers act foolish, dance about like crazy, forget their names, forget their ability to know the number 5 or a host of other things.  It looks like they lose the ability to have free will, that they’re completely controlled, or some other scary thing.  When I talk to people about hypnosis, most people warily admit to an apprehensive rejection of it, with the notion that they’ll lose control and they don’t want to do that.

While the notion and fear of losing control through hypnosis seems logical from the experiences that people may have had with it in the past, it is actually the exact opposite. 

Hypnosis isn’t a state where you hear nothing, see nothing, feel nothing, and can’t do anything. Hypnosis is a state of higher consciousness, away from the blockade of negative thoughts that usually try to tell us what we can and cannot do, that from past experience, inappropriately filtered and processed, created fake limitations.  Hypnosis allows us to bypass these ways of thinking completely and speak to the true agent of change, our subconscious mind.  It is not a process of losing control, but instead a process of reconnecting with the inner power and control you already have within you.

However, hypno-coaching goes even deeper than that.  Where traditional hypnosis used to use the authoritative model of change,  Hypno-Coaching seeks and successfully brings forth true growth and results through empowerment, helping you find your strongest and most powerful self, helping you become the happier and more empowered version, and helping you see the brighter and more promising future that lays in front of you.

 Hypno-Coaching is about strategic growth, with the practitioner helping you discover the true path and tools that will help you truly create the results you’re looking for.  Instead of a singular session where you’re left with the hypnotic suggestion, you’re given tools, techniques, strategies, and methods to continually address the issues, and future issues you may face, to create and attain the results you want in your life.

Hypno-coaching doesn’t just put you in a hypnotic trance, and for those weary of hypnotic trances, it doesn’t need to use them to help you attain the results you want.

With a toolbox of techniques from the greatest arts and sciences of change, hypno-coaching utilizes the best strategies imaginable to help you discover what it is that you truly want.  Every session is specific to each and every person, utilizing the frames that you use for your world, and not trying to speak in any other language than the one your subconscious best speaks in.

You will leave every session with a greater insight into what has been driving your actions and most importantly the tools to work with these Action Drivers, to get the results you want as quickly as possible.  In the session however, you will also be aided by the hypnotic protocols that will help you start to reach your maximum, true potential through your subconscious process, and attain your goals better, faster, and sustainably. 

            Change isn’t the goal of hypno-coaching. 

            We Don’t Change! 

            We Become More of our Better Self!

           

With hypnotic coaching, you’ll become more of your better self each and every day, leaving the session with the knowledge and ability to access your highest self and your maximum potential.

So forget about those old hypnosis comedy shows.  Forget about the weird shows you might have watched, or any of your old preoccupations with hypnosis.  Instead, look into yourself, think of all the things you’re truly capable of. Think of your life without cigarettes, think of weighing 10, or 30, or as was my case, 147 pounds less than you are right now, imagine having more confidence, better energy management, or even better, unleashing a life with no boundaries and infinite possibilities.  Take a moment, really think about it, create that image in your mind.  A life unbound.  A life completely free from the past, free from I Can’t, free from the impossible.  What would you have tomorrow, if you started living fully today?

 

            Do you have that image in your head?

            Hypno-Coaching can and does help you bring that image into reality.

            It gives you the control of your life to shape it as you dream.

            Forget SMART Goals!

            It’s Time To Dream Big!

            It’s Time To Give Hypno-Coaching A Go!

 

By: Clarence Oliver, CHP and NLP Practitioner

Hypnotherapist @Enlightened Interventions, LLC

 

Call for a FREE consultation: 774-261-2259

E-mail at clarenceoliver@enlightenedinterventionsllc.org

Spotlight on Interventions: The Value of Dance and Movement Therapy

If I asked you to close your eyes and visualize what dance looks like, you might envision dance as it relates to modern entertainment. Dance is currently a popular theme in competitive reality TV shows such as “So you Think You Can Dance and “Dancing with the Stars.” Dance has also become a significant part of social media. Perhaps you visualized a viral video with a toddler bouncing to a current pop song, carefully scripted choreography for a wedding party, or a thought-provoking social platform such as "One Billion Rising" which raises awareness of world-wide Domestic Violence.  Over the course of time, dance has had significant celebratory, religious, and community meaning.  In the mind’s eye, dance may mean art and athleticism. Regardless of what you imagine, ideas about dance evolve based on our lived experiences. When I visualize dance, I see movement that expresses more than simple word. Movement is a very powerful tool for the emotional well-being of people regardless of age, gender, physical status, ethnicity and/or socio-economic status.

Dance Movement Therapy  (DMT) and Counseling is often misunderstood. As a professional, I educate colleagues and the community about what I do and how movement affects our daily lives.  As you are reading this, it might help to dispel some of the basic assumptions I hear.

 

“Are you a physical therapist for dancers?”

“If I spin around in a few circles I’ll magically be better?”

“You’re going to teach me to dance?”

“Are you going to expect me to do that stuff I see on tv? I can’t do that!”

 

The best way to explain “what I do” and the therapy I provide is to discuss how it is defined by the American Dance Therapy Association (ADTA). Dance/Movement Therapy is the use of movement to further the emotional, cognitive, physical and social integration of the individual. All in all, it’s a fancy way of stating that a Dance/Movement Therapist works with every aspect of the client and what they’re experiencing through the use of movement instead of just traditional “talk” therapy.

Dance/Movement Therapy is a psychotherapy. Just like with any therapy session it is essential to have a solid sense of psychological safety, referred to by many as a “safe space”. Within these safety nets, the patient/client is able to freely explore thoughts, feelings and their unconscious. A movement therapist, like myself, works first on establishing this quality of safety and understanding. Many people are intimidated by the idea of moving in front of others, fearing judgment and embarrassment, and this fear holds them back from wanting to experience a therapy such as DMT. But under this fear, I want to instill the understanding, in this post, that Dance/Movement Therapy looks different according to whom it is being conducted with. There are DMTs who work with a wide variety of populations, such as, those diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Eating Disorders, Personality Disorders, Autism Spectrum Disorders, substance abuse, at-risk teens and children, and veterans as well as medical diagnoses such as cancer, Alzheimer’s and Dementia; and the list goes on and on.

Movement, just like the people creating it, is individualized. It also comes in many varieties, shapes, sizes, and backgrounds. It ranges from the gestures that we use while talking, to the fast-paced movements of a leg shake some may display when anxious. Movement also occurs at barely visible levels right down to the breath we take. Think about it, breath is the most natural way that we move. It is the foundation of our entire existence wrapped into a simple inhale and exhale. Some fundamental work I do as a Dance/Movement Therapist centers on breathing patterns. Examining how deep, shallow, fast, slow, tense, or relaxed the breathing is often translates to a better analysis and/or understanding of how the individual is feeling…and then we build from there. It really can be that “simple” of a movement.

So now you might ask, what does Dance/Movement Therapy look like? A colleague of mine, Lora Wilson Mau (2011) stated. “[The] Key to dance/movement therapy (as opposed to a dance class or a Zumba™ class) is the therapeutic relationship that exists between therapist and client. All movement expression that occurs does so within that relationship. Movement communicates. Dance communicates. The dance/movement therapist is uniquely trained to understand that communication, facilitate it and deepen it.

You may also wonder if Dance/Movement Therapy is for you.  Spoken word is something that we learned as we developed but sometimes it falls short.  Humans may not always be “tuned into” our movement but it’s no secret that words can’t always describe how we are feeling.  Dance/Movement Therapy with a trained therapist can unlock barriers to good emotional health and well-being.

My goal as a DMT is to bring a holistic, wellness experience to each child, teen, and adult in therapy. As a Dance/Movement Therapist and Counselor, I work using movement in conjunction with other forms of expressive therapies as well as traditional “talk therapy.” The process all depends on the individual as well as personal history, goals, and comfort levels.

Enlightened Interventions is offering two group workshops with special purposes designed to empower the attendees.  One group is for teen girls age 13-17 who may struggle with seeing the beauty in their bodies. In an age where teens are barraged by unhealthy portrayals of the “ideal,” these sessions will focus on self-esteem and celebrating their uniqueness. We are also excited to offer a group for girls and boys ages 6-8 who need some help with social skills. This movement therapy group will engage your little super heroes while having fun!

 

If you have a child/teen in your life, these groups may be just what they need after the holidays, please feel free to contact Liz at enlightenedinterventions@gmail.com or me at BriannaMartin@enlightenedinterventionsllc.org about setting up a referral.  Both groups will take place on Wednesday nights after the New Year. Tune into our facebook page or contact Liz at the email listed for more information on our official start date!
If you have a particular interest in movement therapy, we will tailor sessions for you or someone else in your life.
 
We are looking forward to expanding our Dance/Movement Therapy services in 2015!!

 

There will be posts to follow specific to each of these groups and what the goals and approaches are aimed to be.

 

Remember dance skills are not needed for any group or individual session; it is all about the movement.   

 

Yours in Movement,

 

Brianna

 

Dance/Movement Therapist and Counselor

MA, R-DMT